“I’ll never do it again. It makes me wonder why he's spending all his time talking to me and not talking to his wife or taking care of his daughter. A married man needs you particularly when he’s being tortured by his Bad Wife. Looking back I complimented him more than I should because he always impressed me with his knowledge and intelligence. Though just saying i love you does not guarantee he will leave his wife for you , at least its a sign the from many married men tend to say to mistresses. And he's only 22, but is married and has a 2 year old daughter. Your story could parallel with mine. He is needier than a regular guy, presumably because he’s so neglected. If a married man is falling in love with you and especially if he wants to act on it, he is very well aware that his feelings are not something he should be proud of. We used to text occasionally, and be cool. And I have a boyfriend and have no interest in this married guy the way he does for me. ? From personal experience, I can tell you that a man who’s into the idea of being with a Manic Pixie Dream Girl-type is more likely to be obsessed than he is to actually be in love with the real you. But now he's texting and calling like 24/7. I’ve written several articles with practical tips on breaking up and healing after broken hearts. If he is constantly trying to get in contact with you, the married man … Even if you’re in a bad place in your marriage, the deceit will weigh on you and it’s just not worth it in the end. Therefore, he … My exploits will probably send me to the grave a decade earlier than scheduled. Which, fortunately, is very easy to read. A lot of guys have begged me to stop wearing makeup just because they were so obsessed with my “cartoon villain” scar. Men may have different personalities, but if there is one thing common with all of them, it’s their psychology. He really helped me gain confidence in my career and we also worked closely together. (The irony is that the real way he’s needier is that he’s the epitome of a cheater: someone with a super-needy ego who can never be satisfied by one woman.) So, he will do whatever is in his power to justify himself. You know he is in love with you when he starts to verbally confess to your affection to him. Tracey Cox explains why … 12. Obsessed with a married man! A married man that is in love with you will also allocate his time with you like a monetary budget. Ten reasons you’re still obsessed with your ex - but why getting back together could be an even bigger mistake. This is why so many guys bail when they find out the girl they're dating lost their job, or why many guys won't stick around if they find out the girl they like is dealing with personal drama. I consider him a dear friend and nothing more. In such a short time, you can make your man deeply obsessed with you again just like the time he was wooing you. When a married man says i love you, is one of the signs a man is in love with his mistress. (Oddly enough, I wear makeup to hide it.) My boss is an older married man obsessed with me! 2 years passed I have a wonderful boyfriend but there hasn't been a day that passed by without me thinking of that man. the happiest moments of my life was when I was with him. 5 Ways to Stop Being Obsessed With a Married Man. I'm 19. In this article, I want to focus on the power of love to help you move forward in your life. Men who aren't emotionally attached to you will have little problem dumping you the moment that things start to go sour. He will try to maximize your happiness at every second you are with the married man. I hooked up with a married man and s*** hit the fan. All that sneaking around will drive a man crazy after a while. Almost all of them want the same qualities in women. But it’s not like I’ve had some ethical reawakening. I stopped contact with him and continued my life. We were friends.